What exactly is the kind of fun that men want?

What exactly is the kind of fun that men want?

Interest is the essence of emotional dependence.

"He always says being with me is dull and boring."

He says I always put too much pressure on him.

Maybe I'm just too boring."

A relationship begins with a mutual liking—a touch of curiosity, admiration, and sexual desire. Fueled by material (money) and time (companionship), it eventually develops a close emotional connection.

However, men and women approach the accumulation of affection differently. If women's affection follows a triangular, sloped accumulation process, men's follows a step-like, increasing curve.

Women are often slow to warm up in the early stages of a relationship, but with the care and nurturing of a man, they enter a phase of sustained emotional growth. Psychologically, they feel a growing bond with the man.

Men, on the other hand, typically experience a burst of emotional investment at the beginning of a relationship, but their emotional intensity slows down thereafter. As their affection grows, men experience numerous stagnant points. During this stage, men may experience a sense of "aesthetic fatigue," and their patience and appreciation for their partners may even decline. It's up to women to make changes themselves to help men navigate these critical periods.

So how can this be achieved? First, understand the four main emotional needs men have for women.

1.

Sexual Desire

This is the most fundamental attraction between the sexes. Love between men and women stems from biological instinct, and a harmonious sex life can also foster a harmonious relationship. This is why there are so many sex toys on the market, including lingerie, stockings, and other small accessories. Strive to enhance your femininity and stimulate a man's sexual buds with novel experiences.

2.

Exploration Desire

Many times, "getting bored with the old and liking the new" is a characteristic of men. And this isn't entirely their fault. Since our ancestors were still battling nature, men were tasked with exploring the world and finding new places to settle. This adventurous spirit has been passed down to this day. Even when they know the dangers ahead are numerous, they still seek the thrill of the "gamble." In a man's eyes, being half-hidden is always more exciting than being completely naked.

Learn to consciously conceal yourself and pique a man's curiosity. Don't tell him every detail of your life. Give him the feeling of "opening a gift"—there's nothing more exciting than opening a gift yourself.

Three

Desire to Conquer

Male species are naturally aggressive, driven by a desire to gain the favor of the opposite sex, to lead others, and to secure optimal reproductive rights. The more outstanding the opposite sex, the more they inspire a man's desire for obedience and belonging. The reason so many women who retreat into the background end up being despised and treated as "waste" by their partners is because this self-exile causes men to underestimate their value.

Maintain your own excellence, own your own life, and be the center of attention. Only then can a man be compelled to pay attention to you. Because possessing such a you is proof of his excellence.

IV.

Protective Desire

Men's protective instincts can be divided into two levels:

1. Tenderness and care for the weak

2. The dragon's "collecting addiction"

Strong women rarely inspire a man's protective desire, and men won't cherish women who have lost their luster. The worst thing a woman can do is be like a sticky rice dumpling in a man's hand—sweet, filling, and irresistible. He's not afraid of losing you. A wise woman transforms herself into a pearl in a man's hand, dazzling yet easily slipping away, becoming someone else's treasure. Being gentle yet assertive is what attracts men.

Interest: Interest arises from emotion and is achieved through interest. Although life is difficult, many times we lack the experience to carefully hone ourselves, our lives, and our emotions, leading to a premature loss of our charm and color. A good life requires both partners to cultivate it, and we must also be tolerant of each other and take care of ourselves. A man who doesn't bear children doesn't understand the true tolerance of a person. Life is long, and there's no need to fight for a partner who demands undivided love. Since your own