The 8 surprising truths about sex toys – how many do you know?
Recently, I've noticed that many friends have a lot of questions about sex toys, often due to misunderstandings. Today, let's talk about some of the truths you might be curious about! Due to space limitations, I'll be sharing this in two parts!
Are sex toys only for people with discordant or non-existent sex lives?
Wrong! Anyone can use sex toys. In fact, using adult toys is a right for adults. Studies show that people with active sex lives are more likely to use sex toys than those without, and couples who use sex toys generally have higher quality sex lives and greater emotional intimacy. Approximately 30 to 40% of people will use a sex toy at least once in their lifetime, and this percentage will likely increase as Gen Z grows older.
Are sex toys addictive?
Addiction implies some kind of harm, but using sex toys doesn't cause harm (as long as they are used correctly). While some people might develop a dependence on sex toys due to habit, you don't need to force yourself to quit. Anyone can easily return to a sex life without sex toys.
If a woman uses sex toys, does she no longer need a man?
Sex toys are not a substitute for a person. Their most important function is to assist and enhance pleasure, as well as for self-pleasure. Some people worry that if they use sex toys, their partner might dislike it or think they're less desirable. There's no need to worry; the connection and love between people cannot be replaced by sex toys.
Do men only use sex toys when they can't get real sex?
Not at all! Even if a man has a partner, it doesn't prevent him from masturbating! In fact, millions of men use sex toys, whether they are in a relationship or single. The best way for a man to become a better lover is to understand his own sexual responses. Regardless of whether he uses sex toys, masturbation is a crucial way to learn how to control his body. Using sex toys doesn't mean a man is a "loser"; he's actually quite smart and likely to perform better in bed because he's interested in sex and focuses on technique.
Hopefully, these answers will help you better understand sex toys and reduce some unnecessary misunderstandings and confusion. Next time, we'll continue to discuss more truths about sex toys, so stay tuned!
